Family mediation is a way for couples who are separating or going through a divorce, or who have already separated to sort out arrangements for children and/or finance and property. Compared with going to court it can be quick, effective and relatively low in cost. Mediation puts the individuals very much in control of making their own decisions.
If you think you would like to consider mediation as a way of resolving issues with your former partner you can arrange to come in to our centre for a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting).
A MIAM is a one to one meeting with a family mediator which lasts for up to 45 minutes. You can explain your situation and the mediator will work out with you whether mediation is suitable and safe.
At the end of this session if you want to proceed and you both agree it is suitable we will try and contact the other party and invite him or her to come in for a MIAM. If he or she wants to proceed and the mediator agrees it is suitable we will invite you in for a mediation which will last for an hour and a half. If the other party does not respond or does not wish to consider mediation we can sign the form/s you need for court.
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In mediation sessions you will sit down in a room with the other party and one or two of our family mediators. The mediators will help you to have a conversation about arrangements for children and/or property or finances. You will both have a chance to speak and be heard and express your wishes and feelings. Where you reach agreement the mediator/s will record this and write up a mediation session summary, outcome summary or parenting plan. It may take more than one mediation session to reach agreement depending on your situation.
Memorandum of Understanding
For agreements on property and/or financial matters a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) can be produced. This is not a legally binding document but you can seek legal advice about going to court to make it legally binding.
Advantages of mediation over going to court:
• children benefit because of reduced conflict
• it can be done quickly: it may be completed in days rather than months compared to litigation and the court process
• costs are likely to be far less than lengthy court proceedings
A MIAM costs £80.
A mediation session costs £100 per person. Sessions last for an hour and a half and it may take more than one session to reach an agreement.
SMC offers free mediation to those who are eligible for legal aid. If you are on a low income we can assess you at your MIAM and if you are eligible your MIAM and any mediation sessions will be free. If one party attends a MIAM and is assessed as being eligible for legal aid the Legal Aid Agency will pay for both parties’ MIAMs and the first mediation session.
Want to find out more?
Our family mediators are Sid Short and Ursula Little
Both of our family mediators are qualified Legal Aid Agency Accredited Family Mediators.
They have extensive experience in Child Only, Property and Finance and All Issues mediation (a combination of child arrangements and property and finance matters).
Sid is also a Professional Practice Consultant (PPC) and a Separated Parenting Information Programme presenter.
Ursula is bilingual and is able to mediate in French.
The intention of the family team is to see clients at the earliest possible opportunity, regardless of whether they are private paying clients or are looking to be assessed for legal aid.
On a typical day Sid and Ursula will carry out six MIAMs and one or two mediations.